Are you a Social Media Butterfly you do not need One Original Thought
Most people who are on #socialmedia do not even have an original thought and most of their content is #stolen from other #socialmediaposts and Videos that are easily found online.
Are you trying too hard to put together #originalcontent while other people are just #sharing and #copying and #pasting Other People’s Ideas and Hard Work? That is unless they are being paid to Create Social Media Posts and scatter them Online. To show one emotion or another to create one feeling or just plant a seed into the mind of the viewer or should I say Other Posters
This is where my story starts while checking out a woman who my ex has suddenly decided to throw away our turbulent 8-year non-relationship with a text or maybe as he says” (I tried to call you, even though I was up for a coffee that very day and nothing was said)” He had already committed himself to this new relationship with a person who he knew 18 years ago but says they have more in common and their goals and political views, as well as desires, line up with his.
I lost my Grown-up sons because I chose to move to another town to be closer to him than to stay and help my Son out and be a grandmother to my first grandchild. I chose cheating lying man over my family and yes I have paid the price. My son has not spoken to me in 7 years not one word. I have contact with his wife and my 2 grandchildren by text but not one word from my son because of my choice.
(Do not ever choose a man who is not worth losing your family over as I did. If you are in an off-and-on relationship where the person says they love you but will not commit Get Out Right Away Learn from my mistakes. 8 Years of to be exact.
✅Disclaimer I am not qualified to give relationship advice if you choose to leave because you have read this. This is my story and experience only✅
So he Met her (his new relationship partner) on Friday, Feb 1 2021 in No Frills in Cobourg where she works as a cashier, and decided to just throw away our on and off relationship in which I moved back to his town and have practically devoted myself to him to prove to him that I love him and his daughter for one the whole year 2020 We spent Christmas Together as I do not live with him. (At least he was smart that way for when the time came when he found someone better nicer and younger. Yes younger I am older than him did not seem to bother him but find out it does.
He meets her on Friday by the way I am shopping with him in the store and they exchange Facebook Information I won’t tell you her name because it is not her fault for his behavior 1st clue if you truly love someone you do not take potential lovers facebook Information. Talks on Messenger than exchange tell numbers. I know this because he tells me this on the following Wednesday 3 when he calls to see if I am okay after dumping me by text the Tuesday after I have already been over for a coffee. Because I do not check my messages often enough I did not know about the phone call to me to discuss why he did not want to be in a relationship with me.
My phone always leaves a text message that I can read. Anyways he called me on Wednesday and asks if I am okay assuming I have listened to the message which says this
If you read a message like that what would be your first response?
So I read this during our conversation now the shit is going to hit the fan,I do not handle this very well since he did not have the courage to tell me face to face when I was there for a coffee but chose to wait and be a coward.
Okay, so that is how this post was inspired as I already know the person’s name so I decided to check out her Facebook and found that she only copies other people’s stuff and only shared other people’s videos. I found very few original thoughts (Nothing against this but I decided to turn my stumbling blocks into stepping Stone hence this Storie)
The only way I was going to be able to focus on doing anything online was to incorporate my personal pain with how I am overcoming it by substituting something productive for something destructive and painful such as this.
Here is the Strategy to Use When Starting With Social Media Content MarketingYou do not even have to have one original thought to create Social Media Posts. Steal them from other people and Share/Post them as your own get people to like and follow and the do it over again and again and again
The Easiest and Fasted Social Media Strategy for Beginners
- Choose social media marketing goals that align with business objectives that define your business with a personal touch.
- Learn everything you can about your audience. Do Research on who are the people who are copying and posting the most and what groups do they belong to. See where it is appropriate to add Affiliate Links or banners without it seems like all you want them to do is buy your product or service
- Know your competition. Who else is posting the same content and what is their offer if they have one?
- Do a social media audit. Check yourself out online and delete anything that makes you like stupid or incompetent
- Set up accounts and improve profiles. Pinterest Pins Facebook Post Instagram Posts Youtube Playlists to start
- Find inspiration. (just the same way I did with a personal connection)Use your own life experience to put the human touch and emotion into your copy and pasting other people’s work
- Turn your stumbling blocks into stepping stones
- Create a social media content calendar on your mobile or computer use the iGoogle Portal
- Evaluate and adjust your strategy. Copy Everything you can that is popular on different platforms and share to grow your audience.
- Make connections and only post relevant and popular posts that are already being ranked
- Sound Simple Right Just try it and see if it works for you.
- Don’t try to sell but to engage and gain more internet growth.
Still Processing the not ever speaking to or having any contact with a person I am in love with. Yes, one of the strongest emotions is Hate because in order to truly hate someone you first would have loved them and they hurt you beyond repair. When you make a decision to step away and move on it needs to stay that way. Walking completely away from 8 years of my life.
ps here is a Facebook post I normally do not post any personal but the dull aching pain had to do somewhere
